As Joan recommended....pick up at UPS station.
I started using the UPS station for delivery because I was never at home when they delivered...then I'd have to play tag with them....
The trick to UPS station delivery with Ebay/Paypal is to add the UPS station as a new delivery address to your profile....you need to do this BEFORE you purchase anything. Then when you buy something and are checking out you are given the option of choosing which of your addresses to use: either your home or the UPS station, since both are on file with Ebay/Paypal.
I always request a tracking number and then show up at the UPS station on the arrival date. They don't appreciate a customer opening and spilling a bunch of peanut packing on the floor, so I take it to my car and open it for a quick check before I leave the parking lot....so far, it's worked well.