Learnin',
Couple of things came to mind when I read your post. Do you have a musical background, i.e., play another instrument, sing/sung at school or church (not necessarily in a choir)..but sing and can carry a tune, do you have rhythm? Different folks have different capabilities.....music playing and singing come more naturally to some....more challenging to others. I grew-up in a family where playing an instrument and singing was just what we did. No big deal. But, when I learned to play guitar, I did that on my own on a cheap guitar which tested my desire to play every time I picked it up. But the big breakthrough for me was playing with others who didn't care that I wasn't very good. I regularly would jam with fellow guitar players (folk music mostly) and learned the lyrics, melodies, and the chord changes from watching, listening, and participating....to the point where I didn't have to constantly watch my own fingers. :::::understanding smile::::::
So, with all of that ramblin', a couple of suggestions come to mind....that have been mentioned by others here.....keep practicing whether by playing along with a recording or with others (this is preferred since most guitar players I know offer encouragement and are NOT judgmental...and, safety in numbers...your efforts can be rewarded because you sound better just because you're playing with others who can play)...and, don't get discouraged. Even Eric Clapton and BB King, at one point in their lives, LEARNED how to play. Like I said, some just pick it up faster/more easily than others cuz of innate ability or talent (luck of the draw on that one...although, I do believe genetics might be involved a bit).
And, you always have us. ::::softsmile:::: Keep letting us know how you're doing. We're here cheering you on...... And, if you ever get down San Antonio/Austin way, there are several of us who would love to have you jam with us.
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