Our son-in-law's Grampa died of Covid two nights ago. He was in the hospital, on a ventilator, and they would not allow any of the family members in his room, not even his wife, so the poor guy had to die all alone. This is just sick and wrong.
My condolences to all involved..Our son-in-law's Grampa died of Covid two nights ago. He was in the hospital, on a ventilator, and they would not allow any of the family members in his room, not even his wife, so the poor guy had to die all alone. This is just sick and wrong.
So sorry for your loss. I've lost a few friends to covid...sadly all just before a vaccine was available.
One of my best friend's wife is an ICU nurse at Johns Hopkins and she's been dealing w/ daily covid deaths since early last year. It breaks their heart knowing these patients all have families that want to see them...but they also fully know the reason why these protocols exist. It doesnt matter if you're simply masked and vaccinated. It's not like going to the grocery or in a regular section of a hospital. That covid ward is full of nothing but patients who are absolute worst case scenarios....and in the case of an airborne virus and potential spreading, it's by far the worst place you'd ever want to be. She's lost several coworkers...both nurses and doctors to covid! She basically has to strip down in a contained changing room, put on a complete hazmat suit from head to toe, w/ fully sealed face mask, She spends 8-12 hrs a day in a space suit. Any break they get doesn't even give them the time to go through decontamination.....so, she uses that time to connect families w/ patients via facetime on an extra ipad she bought w/ her own money that stays in the covid ward just for that purpose. They know the protocols seem harsh, but when you see just how many people they are trying to save on a day to day, hour to hour, minute to minute basis, there's just no time to review allowances on any case by case basis. There simply has to be a set of rules, no matter how inhumane, for everyone. Heck, until there was a vaccine, she was coming home to her husband and daughter....and she lived a solitary life quarantined from them in a makeshift converted apartment in their garage for fear of what she might be bringing home to them. They went close to a year living like that!! It wasn't easy. Puts an incredible strain on their relationship, their daughter, and the family as a whole. This whole thing sucks for everyone. One of my childhood friends that died last Dec 20'th...(54 years old, 4 sons in college), not only did they not get to see their father while in the hospital, during the funeral, they had to remain in the limo while they watched him being buried from afar. There was no service.
And as for lawsuits....sorry to say...protocols like these are actually to prevent lawsuits.