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Doug was a bit of a fixture in the White Rock area, when I lived there in the mid 70s. It was a time when many of us baby boomers were just beginning to settle down, still with longish hair and some hippy values ruling a bit of the way we were living. It was'nt all 'free love' but there was a tolerence and acceptence of a lot of how people chose to live...I liked going to a seaside restraurant run by a fine but very dysfunctional family of a mother and a couple of daughters, it was called McBrides and was frequented by a lot of locals in the morning for breakfast, coffe and comradrie. They had good breakfasts, and you could always count on meeting a friend or two or more...there was a little bit of theater to it in that usually there were so many people who knew each other.
Well McBrides had the best fish and chips (fries) around, and many of the tourists stopped by in the afternoon for their fix...
Doug was often seen around town, frequently walking alond the railway tracks that ran between the road and the beach. You might feel like you know Doug....many people knew him as 'hop-a-long'...you see he had a bit of a limp and used cane. He usually had his long winterish coat on, with his slightly thinning straggely hair and beard framing his face, Often he carried a fishing pole over his shoulder. Many people thought of him as the residual bum, who never hesitated to ask you for a quarter....I really don't think too many people took him too seriously...or knew if he even had a place to live in...but Doug had a heart...he was a veteran who had a shrapnal piece damage his brain a bit....He used to have a couple of hundred acres on Vancouver Island, which would have made him at least significant in anyones books....and he gave the property to his kids years before, and embarked on the path I saw him on...
I was in McBrides one afternoon, it had a counter with stools, tables with chairs on the floor, red and white plastic tableclothes...there was the window out of the back wall where you could see the people working in the kitchen....
One day Doug walks in to a rather crowded with tourists McBrides....at this time not too many people knew who was sitting at the table next to them....Doug is in his usual atire includind the black gum boots he usually wears..............and he is carrying his fishing pole.......he walks to the back to where the window is, and says in a voice that is perfectly inocent and loud enough for everyone to hear........"Ruth (the mother and owner) I brought you a fish" as he reached into the pocket of his overcoat and retrieves a fish that was about a foot long.... Ruth tries to shush him up and politely says "No thanks Doug, not now"
Doug now gets insistent and says "Its ok Ruth I got it for you, I caught it this morning:"
I can't believe whats going on....theater at its finest.....and the patrons are unanimated, in shock, some with their forks half way to their mouth, of course.....with a piece of fish on it.......
I kind of lost track of what was going on after that...it was all too good.......too delicious......I think Ruth took the fish and thanked Doug....so he could feel comfortable leaving.....but to me it was just another great chapter in the unfolding adventures that happened at McBrides Restaurant....

I promise you the above is true, if you liked this I'll share another couple with you....Probably not too many people still around but friedships were made that lasted a lifetime...and memories too.... wouldn't that make a great book of short strories... :lol: :lol: Steffan
 

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:lol: Great story Steffan, I wonder what doug is doing tonight? "Teach a man to fish.....'
I certainly hope the road is being kind to him.
Reminds me of a seafood resutaunt I woul frequent whilst living in Yorktown ( Tidewater) Virginia ( NICKS seafood?) The owners there often PAYED for my meal as I was in uniform. ( i was a US Army Transportation Corps officer, stationed nearby) VERY NICE........no WONDER I kept going back!!!( well the food was FANTASTIC and FRESH TOO!) But beyond that....they gave back SO MUCH to the community around them...helped alot of folks in need in the Newport News , Virginia beach area......and whilst I go on about that....does anyone remember BOB ZENTZ, and the bar,,,RAMBLIN CONRADS? Talk about some wild and smokie days And Nights in a folk music 'speakeasy'
Steffan, tale has got ME reminising...............Virginia 1985
 

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Beautiful story. I love stories. I love to tell stories. Thanks Steffan.

Peace
 

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Absolutely beautiful, Steffan and so well expressed. There's a song in there...
 
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noWii said:
Great story Steffan! ...made me want to read on...and, it started me searching my own memory. Me thinks you have a talent for writing.

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Thanks guys......if there is no audience there is no show.....so you'd like another?

Early one morning, being around 8:30 I had gone to McBrides for breakfast...looking out the window was Marine Drive and on the other side of the street is where you pulled in to park, so the cars were facing in the direction of the ocean......some of the other patrons/friends were there of course, and out side the door were maybe 3 or 4 dogs..usually labs, shepards or combination of various large breeds...Purse dogs would probably have been laughed at, or consumed by the other canines in those back to the earth type days.... :lol: ..It was the usual smiles, greetings, and morning rituals going on inside, when someone, a woman shouts,,,,,,,,,"The dog catcher just drove by." I didn't know anyone who had their dog licenced, let alone with a collar...but sometimes you would see a dog with a red 'kerckhief tied around his neck.....
We weren't a rich lot, but thinking back now...we did have a lot of rich times....like this...so....now everyone is is a bit of a panic when some one says their car is just across the road.......and so they rushed out the door shouting 'comon guys' and the game dogs immediately followed her across the road. She opened the door of the car and all the dogs jumped in....somehow knowing this is all part ofl the adventure...now as she came back into McBrides there were sighs of relief and smiles all around.....if not a group effort, at least a group coloboration...and then.........the dogcatcher returns driving back on the other side of the street......slowly........not a dog in sight....but I'm sure he could sense the palatable silence eminating from across the street, as he drove by and maybe, just maybe noticed the fully occupied vehicle he was driving by........which by now I'm sure had nose prints, on every available window.........he moved on....whew, collective exhale....no fines, no having to go and release your dog from the hounds.....at the pound.......
It was about then when a woman carrying a baby in one arm and a bag of groceries in the other walked up to the drivers door of the car.......and froze.......hand almost on the doorhandle.....
A gasp from inside McBrides......."Oh my god....the wrong car"....you see the person who ran across the road to free the dogs from burocratic tyrany wasn't the car owner, she was just helping out...
so it was then that she ran across the street shouting "I'm so sorry.........dogcatcher"......and opened the door so the dogs immediately jumped out of the car, and returned to their vigil outside the window of McBrides restaurant...we watched.......an another great chapter of life unforled, unscriped and unparalled, before our eyes......no harm done, the lady with the baby looked towards the back seat of her car before setting down the baby and the groceries.....ah....yes..what a way to start the day........ :lol: :lol: Steffan
 

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Steffan,
I'm sitting here at Pam's bedside in the hospital where she's receiving treatment. I've read her both of your 'McBrides stories'. We were laughing so hard, the ward staff came down the hall to see what the heck we were up to... You could sell this stuff...
 

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Thanks Scratch.....that means so much to me......and I am so comforted by the good 'medicine' I was able to deliver to Pam...I want her better.......See if you can locate a book called Mr God, this is Anna...... and read that together......it will be a fantastic experience if you can locate it...dr. Steffan :lol: :lol:
 

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Great stuff Steffan. there probably is a song in there somewhere!
 

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While this is a true story......I was there.....I was showing this story to another local friend, he reminded me that when I originally told him about it that Doug had pulled the fish out from his coat pocket ..(corrected in story)... maybe he was without fishing rod but......no matter.........it was one of the most precious of moments.......
and you know....one time Doug had come into McBrides......it was Christmas week and he invited the several of us who were there to his place for Christmas dinner....and told us where he lived. I went that evening but there were only a couple of others there.....didn't know what to expect...but Doug had a small place..... tidy and pretty spartan as I recall, but there on the table was a huge and beautifully roasted turkey.....with some other dishes on the side......It was at least incongurous to what I was expecting...and Doug was glad for the company while at the same time miffed and disappointed that others hadn't shown up....you know......sometimes I think God disguises Himself and shows Himself to us in retrospect......not a bad thing to keep in mind....Steffan
 

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Steffan, you are man of some perception! Great stories, and great observations as well. You know you're really living when you take the time to recognize and appreciate events like this along the way. I often wonder if we encounter angels from time to time without being aware of it?
 
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those stories are great Steffan...Doug and the fish made me laugh quite a bit, and the story about the dogs is simply priceless. I told your stories to my grandmother and she got quite a kick out of them and couldn't stop laughing.
If you have any others, we'd love to hear them
 

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dreadnut said:
Steffan, you are man of some perception! Great stories, and great observations as well. You know you're really living when you take the time to recognize and appreciate events like this along the way. I often wonder if we encounter angels from time to time without being aware of it?

No doubt about it in my mind Dread......the humbling part is that sometimes we are the angel in someones life without being aware of it.... I'm a big proponant of saying thank you in a generally thankless world...you see somewhere along the line I learned, and sometimes remember, that there is waaaay more YOU'RE WELCOME than there is our ability to say thank you...and I guess I can only call it Grace. Funny isn't it how youth is wasted on the young and wisdom is wasted on the old...... :lol: :lol: just kidding......kind of.....
I've been laughing inside all day myself, because I shared those moments with my friends here, and got so very much appreciation....and I thank you for your support and encouragement......it feels all warm and fuzzy inside......kind of like gas......no not that kind..... :lol: Steffan
 

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HI Steffan: You know I'm normally "off on weekends" but I just caught up to this and heartily agree with all the other "kudos". It's true, I bet you could sell those to the local newspaper if it exists. I think there's a great market for stories that revive memories of more innocent times, especially when they have the added patina of being a "local legend". :wink:
 

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Bikerdoc said:
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bet you could sell those to the local newspaper if it exists.
That's funny. I like that.
Peace
Actually I meant that with a hint of irony, as we both , or all 3 of us (Steffan included) are probably aware they're a fast-dying breed. Wasn't it your son who worked for a printer? And as a paper merchant, I'm also painfully aware of the shrinking market.
Somehow I suspect people wouldn't get the same emotion reading that on their laptops at the counter of McBrides. But then again, who knows? We all enjoyed reading it here...I wish I could suggest an online marketplace but Steffan's got enough marbles to get a clue and check it out for himself. It's about time he figured out music's nice but nobody ever makes a decent living from it.... :lol:
 
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