My Father-in-Law

Rich Cohen

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Dear LTG Brothers,
My father-in-law, Shamsur Rahman Faruqi, passed away this Christmas day in India at his home in Allahabad. He had been battling COVID-19, then a severe fungus infection of the left eye and left sinus. He was 85. My spouse Mehr, fortunately was with him, taking care of him for the past five weeks, along with her sister who lives in Delhi. He wished to breathe his last in his own bed, and was given that chance this morning when he was flown by medical evacuation flight from Delhi to Allahabad. He expired just one hour after reaching home.

He was the most important Urdu language literary critic and creative writer of his generation. He didn't suffer fools lightly. While working in a career in the Indian Administrative Service, he managed to publish a monthly literary journal for 40 years, and published well over 60 scholarly books. In addition he published novels, short stories and poetry. Though he was a religious sceptic, he nevertheless was a cultural Muslim, enjoyed and observed the main celebrations. He was a family man -- the central focus of scores of family members and thousands of admiring fans. I don't know what we will do without him. All of the main Indian newspapers are carrying his obituary.
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May God grant him everlasting peace.
https://www.thehindu.com/news/natio...passes-away/article33418872.ece?homepage=true
Rich
 
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Rich, he sounded like a wonderful wonderful man. You and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers. Been a much tougher year for you and yours than 99% of us have had to deal with.
 

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sorry to hear, Rich. He was lucky to have you in his family
 

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My condolences Rich. Wonderful of your Mehr to relocate in order to care for him, and that his wish to come home was made possible. He sounds like an impressive man from an impressive family.
 

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Stay strong, Rich, we are thinking of you. You have had a tougher year than most.

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Godspeed to a great man.
 

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My condolences to you and your family Rich. Your father-in-law's accomplishments were impressive as was his devotion to his family.
 

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So sorry to hear. Our thoughts with you and your family.
 

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Sorry for your loss, Rich. Covid has taken too many.
 

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My condolences to you and your family Rich. He sounds like quite an amazing man who inspired many.
 

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I’m so sorry Rich. What a list of accomplishments! He has left his mark and sounds like his legacy will live on in India. So nice his daughter was with him in the end. Im sure it was a huge comfort to him.
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Thank you for sharing his story and trite as it may sound, I am sorry that your family has to go through this. I hope your wife is doing well especially since she is far away from you.
 

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Very sorry for your loss Rich. My thoughts are with you and your wife and family. I understand the awful, isolating circumstances that are unique to losing a loved one to COVID, and hopefully those thoughts will be replaced with the wonderful memories you keep close of your father in law. I lost my mom to COVID in April, and although Christmas was shadowed with not having her with us, we shared many remembrances and stories of her warmth and joy, and how she lived her life with a remarkable positive attitude. We were lucky to have her. I’m sure you and your wife will also find solace in those beautiful memories left by your father in law. One day at a time my friend, comfort and resolve will find you.
 

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Rich, my condolences to you and your family. It is obvious that your father-in-law was a learned man who shared his talents and abilities with a large part of the world. I am glad that his daughters were there to tend for him as he passed and that you too are able to add your own kind of care and pen such a moving tribute to his memory.

God bless you and your family, Rich.

Best, Harry aka gilded
 

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There's not many people I can say I'd like to be around or quite honestly, even like. I think I would have loved to meet your Father In Law Rich. He sounds like a very intelligent and interesting man. My condolences.
 

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Sorry to hear this, Rich. Your 2020 sure has been tough. My best thoughts to you and your family.
 
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