It's all about perspective - What about you?

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My Grandpa Jesse introduced me to (fly)fishing when I was 8, and I started guitar lessons when I was 10 (influenced by PP&M, the Beatles, and many others). Despite ups and downs and ins and outs in my life, those two past times have stayed with me for nearly 50 years. Sometimes, they give me time alone to mull over things going on in my world... sometimes, they give me time alone to escape from things going on in my world...
 

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For me, Guitar appeared in my life when I was 9 or 10 years old. I was in primary school, but unfortunatelly never existed one teacher that hooked me on her... A few years later, when I was 14-15 years old, I got interested in guitar, again, thankfully for my mates in the school. We used to "play" some punk/ska/hardcore songs.

As the life itself, my music knowledge began to expand and then began to appear things like Blues, Jazz, Fingerpicked music, etc. With that kind of stuff around my mind, and with my scarce "tools", guitar hooked on me and I began to try to imitate guys like Buddy Guy, Johnny Cash, Victor Jara and ultimately the great Doc Watson.

I'm not sure if I'm in the right way, in terms of progress, but as several of you have said, the guitar is unique. Sometimes is gratifying and others is frustrating, but she is wonderful. She is amazing, even more when you have among your hands a lady like the ones we are proud to own...

She is a form to get loose, to disconnected from the rest of the world, a certain way of meditation. She is a world herself!...

Thanks for this interesting thread, guitarjamman!

All the best,

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Started playing long ago because of the sound. Something about the woody rasp of string against fretboard, and the warmth of electric tone. That fascination remains, just as strong.

Early on, playing for me became more about relationship than obvious musical goals - getting good, playing in bands. As in, the guitar (guitars) became a daily companion, and the process of messing with it became a ritual. That is what keeps me playing. And funny how things work out. Decades after I gave up on musical ambitions, I somehow learned enough to get better, be in bands, play out. What I thought would take a few years took decades.

Without that appreciation of daily contact and guitar ritual, I would have missed the best part.
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guitarjamman said:
what made you decide to pick up the guitar, and more importantly, keep picking it up?
Combination of all the reasosn listed so far: I was singing along with the radio when I was 5. The Monkees were in their original run when I was in 4th grade, and I was already looking to: meet chicks? absolutely! :lol: Seeking fame and audience recognition? Absolutely. I wanted to replace John Kay in Steppenwolf until I was about 13 and discovered the Airplane who were totally and 100% about the music. THEN I wanted a guitar.
Funny though, the stuff I wanted to learn the most was that raga-rock type stuff that was so popular back then. THAT inspiration went back to the first time I discovered "Love To You" and "Tomorrow Never Knows" on "Revolver."
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It is not about showing off infront of others or being the most technical player - it's about removing myself from life and being 100% there. "Right here, Right now...."
I think that's the transcendental state Jim Morrison used to talk about trying to achieve, when he talked about being a "Shaman".
This may sound like kind of out there to some of you, but when I was only about a year into noodling around and trying to figure out how to play that modal raga rock type stuff, I became aware of my inner guru, probably my eternal self who's been a musician in several previous lives. Anyway, there I am one afternoon after scdhool, finally got something going with some consistency and steady beat, and thinking to myself: "Man wait till I show these licks off to my friends". AT which point I began to lose the thread and this old bald guy materializes in front of me and says: "If you're not gonna pay attention then I'm not gonna teach you anymore." Wow. And that day I actually wasn't stoned on pot. :shock: :lol:
So from that point on I realized the music has to be the boss.
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These moments go beyond words, they are like trying to define an emotion to someone; if they have felt it, they know exactly what you mean and if not, you will never get them to understand through words alone. Mindless Bliss, there is no analyzing the notes being played and how they come together, there is no thinking of the next chords because they just happen automatically.
That is in fact the definition of a mystical experience.
Another major part of my motivation was the music inside me I needed to be able to play to myself first, and that led to the realization that the creative act mimiced the creation itself, to bring being into existence from nothingness.
After you learn to let the music be the boss, you realize that the purpose is to help others to have the transcendental experience even if they don't play an instrument themselves. That led me to realizing that busking was a good way to gauge audience reaction to your compositions, and how important a tight and defined arrangement is to a lot of folks.
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You can almost sit back inside yourself and watch/listen to the performance.
Those moments keep me coming back, pure medatative guitar being played with heart and soul, not mind.
While I still like to go there for practicing scales, I now believe that's only half of the skill set, and I now I find myself envious of those who can think in 4 tracks and count bars and plan what they're going to "say" in the "solo" while they're still playing the coda.
It's still all I can do to play a "head arrangement" flawlessly...or think up a good clean solo while I'm focussing on the "bridge"...on the spur of the moment... :lol: :wink:
So what keeps me goin' now? Constant pursuit of that "perfect spur of the moment solo"... :lol:
 

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My mom made me take piano lessons but I played by ear and my teachers gave up on me.

I had the exact same experience, griehund! My piano teacher, Mrs. Brown, told my mom "You're wasting your money, he just plays by ear and memorizes everything."

When I was a kid, I loved listening to my transistor radio and all the music of the 60's, but my inspiration was really a guy my family used to camp with, he played an old resonator guitar around the campfire at night - Johnny Cash, Glen Campbell, Jim Reeves, etc. It wasn't so much his style of music that inspired me, but I really developed a desire to be able to play and sing by seeing how much fun he appeared to be having. I also remember thinking how cool it would be to lead sing-alongs. And I admit, I also thought the guitar would be a chick-magnet! :D

Interestingly, I found the chick-magnet thing to be too risky for my marriage when I was playing in bars, too many women were getting overly-friendly with me, only one of many reasons I don't play in bars any more.

So why do I play guitar? It's therapeutic, both for me and as it has turned out, for others too. And if I'm truly honest about it, I'm a bit of a showman, I really enjoy performing and leading music with a group of people.
 

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dreadnut said:
My mom made me take piano lessons but I played by ear and my teachers gave up on me.

A similar experience also but there's more to it.
My mother's family to put it plainly is a musician factory. Everybody does something musical , not necessarily guitar, but something. Mom played the piano and drums, my Grandma the harmonica, banjo, and sang in the Valley Creek Baptist Church choir until she died.
One of my uncles had a travelling family Bluegrass band. One of my aunts was a church organist, I have cousins that write and publish music and play such instruments as the piano, violin (fiddle), bass, several woodwinds, guitar, you get it....
My brother was a gifted player and being 5 years older than me got an edge on the music stuff at our house. He got the lessons and at 14 was an excellent artist. This guy had the brains to go with the talent. Mom and Dad quickly recognized this and at his guitar teacher's urging bought bro a Gretsch Double Anniversary back in 1965 (inherited it and still have it now). Mom especially knew the value of buying a good instrument so it was pretty easy.
Being 9 at the time I of course wanted a guitar too cause brother had one and you know at age 9 that's the way it is!!!! So a few months later I got my first guitar for my 10th birthday. It was a Supro guitar with a single pickup and came with a little tube amp (wish i still had that one too). I was hooked . For me music has always come easy so the only thing I had to master was the mechanics like chord changes an learning the fretboard. I never had lessons but like Mom could play by ear and having a really good player as a brother I could hone my skills following Mom and bro.
Well I thought that I could play piano like mommy so I conned the teacher my brother was using to giving me piano lessons but that didn't last long because basically there is a formula for playing piano properly and I wouldn't have any part of it for I was sure my way was better.............
Anyway, move a few years ahead and I was spending whole weekends jamming with Bro and some of our friends through high school and into college. We used acoustics so that is where the appreciation for acoustic instruments comes in. Bro was into the folk music boom so we were always playing Simon and Garfunkel, Melanie, CSN&Y, Cat Stevens, The Eagles, and so on. I got into the bass about age 14 or so and I played bass for a few bands until I got married. Following Grandma's steps I also was a guitarist/bassist for church from about age 16 to age 50 save about 9 years when the children were small. I still play in a classic rock band guitar/bass/keyboards and love it.
But you know music for me was and is an outlet for expression, a common interest with most of my friends , a place to hide, a place to heal. And don't you just love the sound of those ringing strings and the smell of the wood?
 

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Scratch said:
Hmmmm. OK; I'm a conservative hippie... That in itself is somewhat confusing. :lol: :lol: :lol: Grew up in the 60s and fully experienced the Vietnam era. You woulda had to be there to 'appreciate' it. How do you not love music if your roots are in that wonderful, crazy, mixed up, screwed up, remarkable period in American history?

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I, too, am a conservative hippie.
After I turned 13, in 1967, I thought it was time to grow up(big mistake, I know), & gave away my comics & turned to music. I took up guitar thinking to be like Hendrix and Clapton, but could never get comfortable on electrics. Blues harmonica was actually the first instrument I became competent on, and now I'm struggling to get some of those chops back.

About age 20 - 21, I thought mandolin would be more convenient than guitar on horse back excursions, & started exploring mandolin music in it's various forms.

I'm now barely competent on two instruments, & incompetent on what was possibly my best instrument. Unless you count voice, which is better now, at almost 58, than ever before in my life. Thanks to church choir, with professional directors(plus singing bluegrass & doowop tenor parts), for that.
 

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MandoSquirrel said:
Scratch said:
Hmmmm. OK; I'm a conservative hippie... That in itself is somewhat confusing. :lol: :lol: :lol: Grew up in the 60s and fully experienced the Vietnam era. You woulda had to be there to 'appreciate' it. How do you not love music if your roots are in that wonderful, crazy, mixed up, screwed up, remarkable period in American history?

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I, too, am a conservative hippie.
After I turned 13, in 1967, I thought it was time to grow up(big mistake, I know), & gave away my comics & turned to music. I took up guitar thinking to be like Hendrix and Clapton, but could never get comfortable on electrics.
:lol: Me too, just a couple years later...I think what's being seen in us "closet hippie conservatives" is that back then, we were against too much government interference in private issues, and now we've come to our senses, so we're still against too much government interference in private issues. :lol:
The train went off the tracks I think, when so many well-meaning "liberals" thought it was a good idea to try to have the government legislate all those well meaning ideals into laws, but I think it resulted in the gradual atrophy of common sense due to the growth of "nanny government".
People kind of forgot how to think things out for themselves, and do for themsleves. And Darwin wasn't able to weed out the clueless and downright antisocial elements anymore. :roll:
OK, off the soapbox...next? :D
 
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For me It started when I first heard Pete Townshend strum "Pinball Wizard". I still get goosebumps when I hear it. I went through numerous bands ( I was primarily a bass player) cranking it up to 11, playing places like CBGB's in NY. Then , as I got older I started to really appreciate solo acoustic performers. There's something so honest about it's nakedness. Started really diggin' guys like Peter Case, Steve Earle, etc. Then I fell hard for pre war country blues. Just a guy with his acoustic playing for whoever will listen. I think it's the starkness that really gets me - just try and listen to Nick Drake's "Pink Moon" and not be moved. Long live alternate tunings!

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paul m said:
For me It started when I first heard Pete Townshend strum "Pinball Wizard". I still get goosebumps when I hear it. ... Then I fell hard for pre war country blues. Just a guy with his acoustic playing for whoever will listen. I think it's the starkness that really gets me ...
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Hey!! I see a first post! Welcome aboard!! Pinball Wizard was a big inspiration to me too! One of the first licks I learned how to play!
And that observation about country blues "resonated" with me too. For me it was a tune on "Steppenwolf the Second" that opens up that way with a dobro coincidentally enough, I think it's "Disappointment Number Unknown" which kicks off the medley on the second side of the disc.
 

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One Great-Grandma lost her husband young and earned the family living taking in boarders and giving music lessons in rural Texas. As you might expect, her daughter, my beloved and oft-missed Grandma, was very talented on piano and violin (she did not like the term “fiddle”). She played piano to accompany the silent movies, and played/sang in church every Sunday her whole life. When I was 15, listening to and being inspired by the brand new FM station in the Philly market, WMMR album rock, Grandma very generously gave me $150 to buy a guitar. An older classmate drove a carload of us up to Manny’s, and I got my Yamaha FG-160. Another friend, who tragically committed suicide not that many years later, bought a Martin D35. I forget what the others bought. Seedy Times Square was a first for me in a number of ways.

That same year, I saw my first Dead show, at the Spectrum. My “Old and in the Way” bluegrass album became a favorite (thanks for everything, Jerry). I made a pilgrimage to Sunset Park in Avondale, PA, just because it was mentioned in the liner notes. I did not pay much attention to or appreciate the country music on the stage, but I’ll bet it was great. My Dad loved top 40 country music in those days, but I was too rebellious to really listen to it. So much great music coming out in those days, like Bonnie Raitt, John Prine, Steve Goodman, to mention just a few. The music on the albums released in ‘68-’75 was just unbelievable, compelling me to play.

Then, as a freshman at UNC, there was no album-oriented radio station there at that time. I turned my classmates on to all I had learned from MMR, and they turned me on to lots of oldtime, blues and other roots music. I DJ’d for the campus radio station, WXYC, on Friday evening, 6-9 p.m. I played that yami all the time back then, and jammed with Grandma every visit, as she lived in NC. I took classical guitar classes for credit. I saw so much great live music. Carried the FG-160 all over Europe for nine months. Many, many adventures with that yami. At a pub in England, the guitar player broke his D string, and I proceeded to bring the house down with drunken but extremely enthusiastic versions of “Paradise” and “The Scotsman,” among others.

As Chris Smither sings:
If I were young again, I’d pay attention - To that little-known dimension
A taste in endless time
Just like water – it runs right through our fingers
But the flavor of it lingers - Like a rich, red wine

So, I grew up, stopped playing because of other priorities, started again, etc. etc. etc. Through it all, my love of music always burns bright and hot.
 

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What a great idea for a thread!

First, I just want to thank all you guys for sharing your thoughts on why you play, when you learned. what your inspiration was, etc.

I grew up in Texas, but learned how to play in NYC, when I was around 19. In Tejas, I had sung in a very good church choir for a number of years as a youth and understood the concepts of 'hard practicing' and 'working with others'. In NYC, a friend was learning how to play Chord-Solo Jazz. I would watch him play for literally hours on end, every day. One day he looked at me and said, 'Do you want to learn how to play?'

I did! We settled on electric bass. My buddy taught me some blues lines, along with some 'Motown'. I liked it and practiced the few things I knew.

Once, while my bass was in for a fret job, I borrowed a cheapo classical to 'keep my chops up'. Turned out it was pretty boring playing bass lines on a classical, so I started picking out melodies. The first song I picked out was 'Isn't It Romantic?' by Rodgers and Hart (I'd first heard it in/on the movie Sabrina).

'The Hook' was set, but I didn't know it for a couple of years. I continued practicing on bass, but gradually, I was more attracted to the guitar. Oh, I couldn't play guitar as well as bass, but the higher melody aspect of guitar intrigued me and eventually I quit playing bass (for 20 years, anyway) and turned to guitar.

At first it was a disaster! I could play chords okay but, sadly, my solos sounded like strangled bass lines! I tried writing songs. I'd play two chords I liked and figure out a bass line to connect them. Then, I'd find two more chords and do the same thing. Eventually, I had a mix of chords, interconnecting bass lines and short melodic fills, enough for a few good songs. My guitar soloing ability got a little better over the next few years, but nothing wonderful.

All my 'heroes' were the guys who'd played mainstream Jazz in the '30's thru the '50's. I heard George Barnes play, along with Les Paul, Jim Hall, Kenny Burrell, Tiny Grimes, Toots Thielmans and Bucky Pizzarelli. And that's just the guitar players!

Here's the embarrassing part. I thought Rock sucked and didn't realized the validity of it as music until a couple of years later, when I tried to play like Keith Richards for a joke and realized how hard it was to do it 'right' (thanks, Keef!).

Things stayed the same for about 30 years. My playing didn't get better and didn't get worse. Then, a few years ago, I bought a cheapo '60's classical and began to play it at night to fall asleep.

I kept it next to the bed. If I woke up in the night, I'd play it in 'pitch black' dark. Interestingly, it made me a better player. With my eyes 'out of the way', I'd play what I heard, not some 'blues pattern' I'd learned 35 years ago.

I've gotten a lot of different chord forms out of it, too, as well as some two octave arpeggios, partial chord lines and a few songs that sound different from anything else I've done.

That's my story, Harry
 
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I would also like add to the comments about this being a great topic! So often musicians get hung up on tech talk - gear, etc. What it all comes down to is feel, emotion & soul. Most of my early blues heros just grabbed whatever guitar they could find/afford and learned to make those pieces of wood & steel sing in all it's primitive beauty.
 

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paul m said:
What it all comes down to is feel, emotion & soul. Most of my early blues heros just grabbed whatever guitar they could find/afford and learned to make those pieces of wood & steel sing in all it's primitive beauty.
Hi Paul!:

What you're saying it's so true man!

Btw, welcome to the forum! You will like it here! :D

All the best,

B.
 

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Dr Izza Plumber said:
Harry,

Great story!
I truly wish that I resided closer to You and Woody.
I'd love to jam with Y'all more often than once every 4 years or so. 8)

Thanks, Doc', for your kind words. I have this picture in my mind of you playing my 12 string cutaway at the Yacht Club last October. You're just going to have to come back sooner than 4 years!.
 

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I have to say it has been a pleasure going through and reading what everyone has contributed. Everyone's words have helped me appreciate different aspects of guitar playing and how people from such a variety of backgrounds can find joy in a common act as simple/complex as guitar playing - however you make it out to be.

The most interesting thing I have gathered so far is that mostly everyone has started playing at a younger age and carried it with them through all their years. Life can throw curve balls and maybe playing guitar has been put on hold for a while, but it is never forgotten.

I know for me and probably most of you, guitar will always be there....
 
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