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dreadnut

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So I tripped over my dog and fractured my left ankle. Extreme pain. And will anyone prescribe some real pain meds for me? No.

DR's office: You need to come in for an appointment
before the Dr can prescribe meds.

Me: But I can't walk.

Could you do a virtual visit?

When?

930 tomorrow morning.

Hello, Im in excruciating pain right now, not tomorrow morning.

Geez, it's not like I'm an opioid addict or anything, just give me something for a few days to get past this pain.
 

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Yup, you need to present yourself at an ER.

X-rays will help identify whether it is actually broken (might be a really bad sprain).

Appropriate meds will follow, whether for pain, or inflammation, or both.
 

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Urgent Care is often a better option. You can schedule a time slot, so you're not at the mercy of ER triage.

Before choosing one, make sure it's one affiliated with a larger health care system, and not an independent. Some of the independent ones can rake you over the coals for charges that aren't covered by insurance.

When I get prescribed pain meds, I usually 'bank' a few of them for just this kind of scenario.
 

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Getting old is tough, but better than the alternative.

Hope the ankle is better soon, Dread.
 

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I kinda dig being an old guy. I can say all kinds of irrational, semi crazy and often times not at all coherent statements and most just chalk it up to me being an old coot and likely soon on his way out. They tend to cut me a lot of slack. Of course, I sometimes abuse that.
Yup. Retirement makes up for all the countless downsides.
 

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As someone who has attended 3 funerals in the last year (2 in the last month and 1/2, for a 26 and 35 yr old!)) that were the result of heroin overdoses that all innocently started w/ pain pills, I have no problem w/ doctors refusing RX'ing pain meds by simple phone request. You definitely need to be seen first, be it the ER or Urgent Care. It's not a simple case of a few bad apples ruining the bunch. It's a massive problem. The funeral I attended 3 weeks ago for my boss' 35 yr old son, the priest that presided over the service came very close to outright screaming F bombs about being at wits end by the sheer amount of OD'd "kids" laying in boxes he's had to stand next to in the last 5-10 yrs. :cry::cry:
 

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I have seen so many lives destroyed, so much human potential wasted. A young woman whom I had gone to kindergarten with was murdered and cut open and had her entrails pulled out by a couple of desperate junkies who thought she had swallowed condoms of junk to bring into town. She had but they didn't find them. My first and best friend from toddler days, a really academically bright person, an amazingly gifted athlete, was lost for years in a life of petty crime, dealing and pimping to support his habit. He lived for many years in an AIDS hospice in later life. He is a survivor - the AIDS meds work for him. In his 70s, he is belatedly rejoining society and trying to put a life together. There is so much he could have done and contributed to the world. Another friend, a recreational dabbler, gets a bad batch, ODs, and leaves behind a wife and young children. I could go get my school annuals and pick out all dead dead and the zombies existing in either a desperate fix-to-fix existence or a perpetual methadone half-life haze, many of them, as young offenders, having being put through the adult prison system where they experienced violent bullying and sexual assault, but I won't go get the books. It's too depressing. And this was all before big Pharma pushing synthetic opioids.

Now it is worse in its extent. It knows no social boundaries. A respectable middle-aged couple in a mansion in the wealthiest area of the city ODs on fenanyl or carfentyl. A homeless person does the same in gutter of a back alley. Its all the same.

One of my kids works as a landscape gardener, servicing the grounds of large properties. Naloxone kits are now standard issue for gardeners it seems.

I won't discuss potential answers to the problem because any discussion is bound to be politically charged. I, will, however, draw attention to the apocryphal and probably erroneously attributed Albert Einstein quote:

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.​
 

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Sorry about your pain and injury but your doctor is spot on and if there is a problem it might be with your expectations.

The usual advice, which I will repeat because it works for me and people I talk to, is to visit your doctor, a local urgent care facility or the emergency room. Make your choice based upon who has an x-ray machine on site, who can see you soonest and who is likely to cost you the least after your insurance company stops jerking you around.

Prescribing a pain killer based upon a patient's self diagnosis of a fracture is unethical and actually illegal in some jurisdictions.
 

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Our rural county of only 10,000 people is in the throes of an opioid epidemic, has been for years, I have this on good authority from someone who works at the local hospital.

However, if you have long hair or suffer from some other form of alternative lifestyle, the local doc has a history of refusing pain meds, even in extreme cases..

You do the math.

Washington: Opioid-Involved Deaths and Related Harms

https://nida.nih.gov › opioid-summaries-by-state › wash...


Apr 3, 2020 — In Washington, an estimated 63% of drug overdose deaths involved opioids in 2018‒a total of 737 (a rate of 9.4). Among opioid-involved deaths, ...
 

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Everybody give your kids and loved ones a big hug next time you see them.

Some of us have been very lucky to have avoided these horrors.

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So I tripped over my dog and fractured my left ankle. Extreme pain. And will anyone prescribe some real pain meds for me? No.

DR's office: You need to come in for an appointment
before the Dr can prescribe meds.

Me: But I can't walk.

Could you do a virtual visit?

When?

930 tomorrow morning.

Hello, Im in excruciating pain right now, not tomorrow morning.

Geez, it's not like I'm an opioid addict or anything, just give me something for a few days to get past this pain.
Was the ankle fractured, and are you feeling better?
 

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Yes it is fractured and I finally got some Tylenol 3 after hobbling in to the doctor's office with Micki's help..

Absolutely one of the most painful conditions I've ever had.
 

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Wishing you a speedy and relatively painless recovery!
 
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