OK! Nice burst! So I've heard two opinions regarding a neck reset -- you say it needs it, your buddy says it doesn't. You just say you like a low action. I'm with you on that. That's why I took in my recent acquisition for a setup. Told the luthier I wanted it as low as possible. The saddle was a little lower when it came back, but not terribly low. And man, is it easy to play! Maybe a setup will do it for you!
[Edit to add: Oh, you put it up for sale. That's reasonable since you don't like the nut width, the action, etc. You need a guitar that really does it for you. Good luck with the sale... and the hunt!]